A secret to happiness: Life is a marathon, not a sprint

Psssttt… want to know the secret to happiness?

Most of us want to be happy, but true happiness remains elusive. What’s the big secret? I don’t think there’s a single secret. There are many things that can add to our happiness. I don’t mean making millions of dollars, having the latest model cell phone or having the cutest prom date. Those can bring temporary happiness, but they miss on true happiness. Sometimes they actually can make us unhappy.

Have you heard the title quote before?

Live is a marathon, not a sprint. ~Unknown

I think it holds some of the best ideas about true happiness. Life is a marathon, not a sprint. Let’s break down what that means. I’ll start with a bit about what goes into running a marathon. Then I’ll give several examples of how we’re sprinting along and how this can lead to burnout. I’ll end with tips on how to turn this into a marathon. Pace yourself. You’ve got a long life ahead!

The Marathon

Running a marathon isn’t easy.

People must train for long periods of time. It takes dedication and consistency.

There is a big time commitment – and it’s not all running. It’s coming up with the time to run regularly. And eating enough healthy calories to sustain your body.

Not to mention preparing yourself mentally.

Only after months of hard training can you actually run the marathon.

Sometimes injuries delay things unexpectedly.

Excitement builds as the date approaches.

During the marathon, you might feel on top of things as you run past others, but then there will be some who pass you. There are moments a runner may feel like there’s no way to go on because you have nothing left to give. It takes grit and resilience to keep going.

After finishing, you might even spend time wondering what you could have done differently to shave off time.

And you need to take time to rest so your body can recover.

Then maybe you start the cycle all over again.

Pace yourself to help attain happiness. #adhdkcteen #gratitude #happiness #mindfulness #resilience @adhdkcteen

Society of here and now.

We’ve become a society that has access to everything right here. Right now. While it seems like this is a good thing on the surface, this can lead to impatience, anxiety, and entitlement. All of these lead directly to unhappiness.

It’s not uncommon to hear how busy people are. They complain, yet they often seem to be bragging of all the things they have to do. Being busy isn’t something to brag about.

It is seen as a negative thing when we take time to relax. We’ve become a society that doesn’t value balance, despite everyone talking about finding work-life balance.

Being constantly busy and expecting everything when we want it has become our general expectation. We don’t learn resilience when we’re able to get what we want when we want it. Resilience is when someone is able to pick up and move on when something doesn’t go their way. If we never learn resilience, we’ll be unhappy in life.

The good news is you can learn resilience at any age!

Instant access to friends and family

When I was growing up, we had no cell phones. (I’m a dinosaur, I know.)

I didn’t even get voice mail or caller ID until my mid to late teens. If a friend called and no one was home, we didn’t even know they called. Sometimes that caused frustrations because we had to keep calling to find someone to answer if it was important, but it also was a lot more freeing in many ways than being constantly attached to a cell phone.

We looked forward to talking at school and activities. There were fewer distractions when we were with people because it was rare that someone had to take a call. It took planning to arrange to meet friends, but that itself helped us learn an important skill!

In today’s world if want to tell a friend something, I text them. This is impersonal and doesn’t build communication.

Sadly, we often impatiently wait for an answer. Some people even start to worry when the text remains unanswered for a few minutes.

~ Did I do something to make them upset?

~ Are they having fun with someone else and ignoring me?

The facts can be very different.

Maybe the text is delayed. Their ringer could be off. If they’re driving they shouldn’t answer. Maybe they’re practicing self regulation and it’s not a time they are using their phone – they’re doing something else. The phone can be in another room – or taken away by parents.

So many things can interfere with a quick response, yet we often get upset when the reply isn’t instantaneous.

Isolation of online

There are so many things to do online. Some of these are required for school or work. Sometimes we simply want to relax and check up on things or watch a video.

For many people, following social media sites is a way to catch up on what’s going on. This can be fine in the short term, but the more time you spend on these sites, the more likely you’ll be depressed. It shouldn’t consume hours of your day.

That keeps you away from actually living life and self care.

Set limits for yourself. You will find that you have more time to do other things that bring more joy. Less time online also means less time to get upset with what others post.

Set limits for yourself with time online. #adhdkcteen #gratitude #happiness #mindfulness #resilience @adhdkcteen

Instant shopping

If we are in need of things, we can order online and Amazon will deliver it tomorrow. There are even food delivery services that will deliver from any restaurant in the area, so we can order online and never leave the house.

While this seems convenient, there’s something to the action of going shopping or out to eat. Planning a day and time to be able to shop (or eat out). Actually looking through the store and possibly running into someone you know or having a simple conversation with the store clerk are becoming lost skills. We are isolating ourselves by taking the convenient road.

Fear of the great outdoors

In years past kids would play outside until it got dark outside. They’d walk to school and back unsupervised. A great memory is shared in The Summer of No TV.

Today parents are afraid that kids will get hurt or abducted, so they won’t allow them to roam alone.

Parents of today tend to schedule kids in sports, music lessons, dance classes, scouts, and more.

They structure a child’s time so much that kids of today don’t learn how to fill their time with fun things to do. They don’t learn to work through problems and differences with friends on their own. The fear of injury and abduction overshadows the real dangers of kids not learning how to become independent and resilient.

This over-structured lifestyle leads to teens who don’t know how to find things to do other than screen time or scheduled activities. Kids don’t learn to use boredom as a door to discovery. They don’t discover their own interests and talents. It can lead to feelings of inadequacy and sadness.

Our society is growing adults who have no idea how to organize their own time and succeed in life.

If you’re a teen reading this, talk to your parents about how you can gain independence and be accountable for yourself. If you’re a parent, think about ways you can let go and let your kids figure things out themselves.

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Make it a marathon

You can’t get away from many of the busy activities in life.

The key is to use balance. Balance can lead to the secret to happiness.

Spend time with others

Find ways to be with friends and family on a regular basis in real life.

Go beyond your regular practice and game time and schedule unstructured time. When we are in class or at practice, we have rules to follow and things to do. Unstructured time is when we’re able to be creative with our time, find new interests, and learn more about one another.

Make time for yourself.

Yes, I know I just said to be with other people, and that is still important. When we’re alone too much, we start to feel self doubts. Anxiety grows. Depression can set in.

What I mean by making time for yourself is that we all need to practice self cares.

Get sufficient sleep.

This one also goes along with self care.

Many teens don’t get the sleep they need. Sleep is more important than many realize. Without it we don’t focus well, we’re more likely to be injured, we get irritable, illness is more common, and more. If you have trouble sleeping, check out these tips.

Exercise.

Here’s another self care necessity. I know you hear this all the time, but it’s important.

It’s easy to spend most of the day sitting. Failure to get daily exercise can lead to lifelong problems.

Find something you enjoy doing, such as a sport or dance. If it’s nice outside, invite a friend to take a walk or bike ride. Walk a dog. Play frisbee. Have fun! This directly and indirectly can increase your lifetime happiness.

Expand your horizon

We tend to get stuck in our daily routines, which can get boring and doesn’t allow us to find our true passions.

Explore other cultures.

Learn about other people and cultures through books, movies, music and cultural events. Visit a museum or historical site.

Talk to people outside your social circle. I know that can be intimidating for some and difficult if you’re in a small town, but it can be very rewarding to learn about other people and their culture.

If you don’t have time to read, or just don’t like reading, try an audiobook. You can listen while exercising or doing chores around the house.

Take up a new hobby

When we’re young our parents sign us up for things to do or buy our toys and games.

As we get older, we need to explore other interests to help find ourselves. There are many things out there that you might not even know about. Think about what characters in books and movies have done. Does any of that interest you?

You can try new things at school by taking an elective that you know nothing about.

Take an art class or learn to rock climb. If you think you can’t dance, sign up for lessons. If competitive sports aren’t your thing, check out a non-competitive league or an individual sport.

Join a new club at school.

Give to others

Community service is becoming required for many teens, but it should be something we do with a giving heart.

Doing things for others is one of the biggest secrets to happiness.

Don’t simply sign up for a service project because you need the hours. Find something that suits your personality and interests.

If you love the great outdoors, find ways to help others outside.

Love animals? Check out the animal shelters.

If you’re good in a subject and see a friend struggling, offer to tutor. (Be careful how you propose this… you don’t want to offend them or come off as a know – it- all.)

Is your neighbor aging? Offer to help with yard work or house work without charging. Leave a pot of flowers on their porch just because.

Do you love kids? See if you can volunteer at a summer camp or respite care.

If you’re interested in healthcare, look at hospitals and other healthcare settings to see if they offer volunteer opportunities.

Develop spirituality

We often associate spirituality with religion, but they are not the same. We can learn about our own spirituality through meditation and prayer. Spirituality involves a deeper understanding of yourself and the world around you. It is about loving yourself, others, and our planet.

Spirituality also involves mindfulness, philosophy, and more. Learn from books and other people to develop a deeper understanding of love and life. Attend a conference or retreat. Continue this learning life long.

Certainly religion is important to many people, and exploring your faith can be very rewarding towards overall happiness. Teen years are a common time to question, so it’s a great time to reflect, read, and learn. Learn about your own religion and others. This isn’t to change your belief, but it often reinforces it. If you do find that another religion is appealing to you, find people from that faith to talk to so you can continue learning.

Enrich your spiritual life by taking time each day for reflection. Keep a gratitude journal. Help others.

Check out your senses

Sights, sounds, touch, and taste are all important senses, but smell is especially helpful in our emotions and memory.

Certain smells can bring me back to my grandmother’s kitchen. Smells have a way of solidifying memories and then bringing them back. Some, like my grandmother’s kitchen are very positive, happy memories. Others can bring negative emotion. We can use this powerful sense to help us bring happy feelings or a sense of calm and peace.

Certain smells tend to lead to happiness. Citrus smells, such as lemon and orange, and peppermint can serve to pick up your mood. This doesn’t make you find happiness for life, but it can be a pick me up when needed.

Learn to be aware of all 5 senses. This is part of mindfulness and helps us in our awareness. There are many ways to learn mindfulness. Take some time and try some out.

Find true happiness - it's not impossible! #adhdkcteen #gratitude #happiness #mindfulness #resilience @adhdkcteen

Brain Function 101- why medicine helps those with ADHD

Neurotransmitters are the messengers that bring information from one neuron to another. An imbalance in their levels can cause many problems. Medicines can help bring levels back to normal.

There’s a commonly held belief that people with ADHD should just try harder, but this doesn’t usually work. The symptoms of ADHD are caused in part by imbalances of neurotransmitters in the brain. Low norepinephrine levels lead to symptoms of ADHD. More and more evidence is showing the differences in the brains of people with ADHD compared to neurotypical (“normal”) people.

ADHD is real. You can’t just will it away.

Not everything gets better when people just try harder. Some things require a different approach. #adhdkcteen

What if no meds are used for ADHD?

Not everyone with ADHD is treated with medication. There are many reasons.

Some have never been diagnosed. Others don’t like medicine for whatever reason.

Many teens want to come off their medications. Some don’t like side effects. Others don’t want to be different.

Some can manage issues with alternative treatments and accommodations. Or think they can, but suffer from unrecognized complications of undertreated ADHD.

Some people simply forget to take it and then struggle with the consequences of being unmedicated.

Many families have a hard time affording the medicine or taking the time to do the required follow up with their physician.

I’m sure there are many more reasons people stop (or never start) medicine.

Neurotransmitters

Before discussing how the medicines work, it’s important to learn about neurotransmitters.

Our brain is of course very complicated in structure and function. There are millions of neurons that make up our brains. Between each neuron is a synapse, or space. Different areas of the brain serve different functions, and they all interact with each other. They also interact with other parts of our body and the outside world.

There are many pathways or circuits that bring information from one part of our brain to another. Neurotransmitters are the messengers that bring information from one neuron to another. They are made from amino acids.

Neurotransmitters each have a unique function but can be broadly classified into two categories: excitatory and inhibitory. Some neurotransmitters can serve both functions.

Neurotransmitters each have a unique function, but can be broadly classified into two categories: excitatory and inhibitory. Some neurotransmitters can serve both functions. #adhdkcteen

Excitatory neurotransmitters regulate motor movement, thought processes, anxiety, and more.

They can help us stay alert, but when they aren’t moderated by an inhibitory system, things can get out of control.

ADHD is like having a Ferrari engine for a brain with bicycle brakes. Strengthen the brakes and you have a champion. ~ Dr. Edward Hallowell #adhdkcteen

Inhibitory neurotransmitters act like brakes.

We need brakes so we don’t feel restless, irritable, and out of focus. When our brakes work, we can excel! Without brakes, we’re out of control.

Lock and key

Neurotransmitters act as messengers between different neurons. They are released from one neuron into the space between neurons called the synapse. They enter a neuron that has the proper shaped structure for it to fit.

Neurotransmitters are used to communicate from one neuron to another. #adhdkcteen

It works like a lock and key.

Each neurotransmitter is like a different key. They each fit certain locks, and often can fit more than one type of lock.

Neurotransmitter levels and ADHD

When neurotransmitter levels are too high or too low, we can develop anxiety, depression, and executive functioning disruptions.

It is important to understand that to some extent we can control our actions, but neurotransmitters are important in the aspects that are beyond our control. Sometimes we just feel anxious or sad. Focusing can be very difficult. Executive functions, such as time management, working memory, and more, can be hard to manage.

While we can’t simply will ADHD symptoms away, there are things we can do to improve our mood and executive functioning that don’t involve medicines. But medicines are an important treatment.

Norepinephrine

Norepinephrine is an excitatory neurotransmitter. It is primarily made and stored in neurons but is also found in the blood and a small amount is stored in the adrenal glands, which sit on top of our kidneys.

Norepinephrine is involved in focus, emotions, sleeping, dreaming, and learning. Too much norepinephrine can cause anxiety, but too little can lead to problems with focus and motivation.

It can raise our heart rate, increase blood flow to muscles, and increase our blood sugar level – all symptoms we experience in times of anxiety. These are helpful responses when stress is caused by physical danger and we need to run away, but not so much when we worry about a test or other common anxieties.

These symptoms can lead to distraction, self-consciousness, and poor focus and performance. This can look a lot like when norepinephrine levels are too low, which is one reason why anxiety and ADHD can mimic one another as well as exacerbate one another.

Norepinephrine: too much leads to anxiety, too little to poor focus and low motivation. #adhdkcteen

Dopamine

Dopamine makes us feel happy. Getting a bump in dopamine feels good.

I often joke that we get a dopamine hit every time we check social media or win a game. One of the reasons depressed people overeat comfort foods is that eating rises our dopamine levels, which makes us feel better. (At least until the heartburn sets in or we notice we’ve gained a few too many pounds to be healthy.)

Dopamine is one of the neurotransmitters that can be both excitatory and inhibitory.

Drugs like nicotine (yes, even from electronic cigarettes), opiates, and alcohol all increase dopamine levels. Eating foods can have the same dopamine increase, as can winning a game or doing anything else pleasurable.

We can all choose healthy options to get dopamine hits. Exercise. Playing games. Enjoying the company of friends and family. Helping others. All of these are healthy things that bring us happiness.

Negative things, such as drugs and alcohol or too much screen time, can lead to more problems than they’re worth. Even though they bring temporary feelings of happiness, they cause more problems in the end. Avoid these dopamine hits.

Drugs, alcohol, exercise, foods and any pleasurable activity can increase our dopamine level and make us feel happy. Not all are healthy ways to get a dopamine hit. #adhdkcteen

Dopamine can increase our alertness and help with memory and motor control in addition to giving us pleasure.

Dopamine can be converted into norepinephrine and epinephrine.

Low dopamine

Low levels of dopamine are associated with problems focusing, depression, the inclination to abuse drugs and alcohol, excessively playing games online or gambling , and overeating.

If the levels are low in motor areas of the brain, it can lead to the tremors commonly seen in Parkinson’s disease.

Low levels in other parts of the brain can lead to learning and memory problems, lack of energy and motivation, and a loss of happiness and interest in things that used to bring pleasure.

Low levels in the prefrontal cortex are associated with ADHD.

High Dopamine

High levels of dopamine can cause overexcitement and disrupted thoughts. They can even lead to anxiety and paranoia.

Serotonin

Serotonin is important in the regulation of anger and aggression, body temperature, mood, sleep, sexuality, appetite and metabolism. It can help us relax when serotonin is available in proper amounts. Stress can lower our serotonin levels as we use it up trying to relax.

About 80-90% of the body’s total serotonin is found in the gut. It is made by bacteria that live in our gastrointestinal tract. There are ongoing studies using probiotics (healthy bacteria) to alter the level of serotonin to help anxiety and depression. Unfortunately, as of now studies show mixed results, and at best only a minor benefit.

Low serotonin

Low levels of serotonin can result in depression, anxiety, anger, panic attacks, low energy, migraines, insomnia, obsessions, irritability, craving sweets or loss of appetite, focus and memory problems, aggressive behavior, slowed muscle movement and speech, and having a decreased interest in sex.

High Serotonin

High levels of serotonin cause diarrhea, headache, confusion, sweatiness, twitching muscles or stiff muscles, fever, high heart rate and blood pressure, seizures, and even death.

How do ADHD medicines work?

Stimulant medicines are considered the first line medical treatment for ADHD. The two types of stimulants are methylphenidates and amphetamines.

The differences in how these two groups of stimulant types work may explain why some people with ADHD respond to one type better than another.

Methylphenidates

Methylphenidates include prescription medicines such as Ritalin, Metadate, Concerta, Focalin, Aptensio, Quillivant and others.

The methylphenidates block the reuptake of dopamine and norepinephrine. This leaves more of these neurotransmitters in the synapse. Methylphenidates also help release these neurotransmitters from the neuron, again allowing more to be in the synapse.

Amphetamines

Amphetamines include Adderall and Vyvanse. They increase the release of dopamine and norepinephrine from their storage sites into the synapse. They also slow the reuptake of the neurotransmitters, but not to a large extent.

How do medicines affect neurotransmitters?

Medicines that affect neurotransmitters are used to treat ADHD, anxiety, depression, and low blood pressure.

  • Stimulant medicines (methylphenidates and amphetamines) increase norepinephrine and dopamine.
  • Atomoxetine (Strattera) affects only norepinephrine.
  • Serotonin norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs) are antidepressants that work by increasing serotonin and norepinephrine.
  • Tricyclic antidepressants also increase norepinephrine and serotonin, but are not often used anymore since there are many safer options available.
  • Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are commonly used to treat anxiety and depression. They block the reabsorption of serotonin, which leaves more available in the synapse.
  • MAOIs prevent the breakdown of serotonin (and other neurotransmitters) but are rarely used due to significant adverse reactions.

For more:

In addition to the resources hyperlinked throughout this post, check out the following:

For more on the basics of the medicines used to treat ADHD, see ADHD Medications: Types and side effects.

Did you know that while stimulants that are used to treat ADHD can help people with ADHD, they can cause imbalances to neurotransmitters to those without ADHD? Learn how stimulants can make focus, attention, mood and more worse in Stimulants decrease brain function. Say What?

Dr. Russell Barkley has studied ADHD extensively and mentions neurotransmitters in his paper, What Causes ADHD?

What if we don’t treat ADHD?

A lot of people worry about medication side effects, want to be all natural, or just plain forget to take their medicines. What’s the harm in that? Is it really a big deal if we don’t treat ADHD? Dr. Russell Barkley has data to show why it’s a big deal!

A lot of people worry about medication side effects, want to be all natural, or just plain forget to take their medicines. What’s the harm in that? Is it really a big deal if we don’t treat ADHD? Is there risk of not treating ADHD?

I have had the privilege of hearing Dr. Russell Barkley, an internationally acclaimed expert on ADHD, speak three times about his research results showing the long term impact of ADHD on our lifespan. He came to Kansas City to present at a Grand Rounds at Children’s Mercy Hospital and again at the Midwest ADHD Conference in April 2018. He presented the same information at the 2018 International ADHD Conference in St. Louis this past November. During each of the the three talks he made big impressions in audience members.

Why am I blogging about it now?

I’m excited to see that he’s giving a FREE webinar through Additude Magazine, How ADHD Shortens Life Expectancy: What Parents and Doctors Need to Know to Take Action. It’s happening later this month and I wanted to write this to show how important the topic is and to encourage you to register so you can hear him for yourself.

When is the webinar? Tuesday, January 29, 2019, at 1:00 EST/noon CST.

If you can’t make the webinar live but you’ve registered, you’ll get a copy to listen later. A win either way!

Update:

Here’s a recorded version that’s circulating online. The main talk begins after 3:30.

What’s the big deal?

We all know adults who have had untreated (even undiagnosed) ADHD all their life and seem to do well. Some people seem to be able to control their symptoms of ADHD or they outgrow them.

There are even those who think certain aspects of their ADHD help them thrive.

There’s significant risk for many with ADHD

Unfortunately, not everyone outgrows ADHD and many people suffer from untreated problems, especially when they’re young and haven’t learned to adequately manage the frustrations that ADHD can cause.

Dr. Barkley’s long term study has shown some very distressing results. Children with ADHD have a shortened life expectancy of over 9 years. Adults with persistent ADHD symptoms have an even more significantly shortened life expectancy of nearly 13 years.

Dr. Barkley’s research is very compelling

The complete study, Hyperactive Child Syndrome and Estimated Life Expectancy at Young Adult Follow-Up: The Role of ADHD Persistence and Other Potential Predictors, was recently published in the Journal of Attention Disorders. Unfortunately, it is behind a paywall, meaning you cannot read the complete results unless you have paid for access or are a student or educator with that benefit. (But the webinar is free!)

Life Course Impairments

Dr. Barkley has found that many risks associated with ADHD can lead to life problems, including premature death.

We all know that kids with ADHD struggle in school without proper supports. This is linked to lower educational success, lower paying jobs, and more family stress.

Many people with ADHD get anxious and depressed due to circumstances created by their ADHD. This can lead to more problems in school, interpersonal relationships, self medicating with drugs and alcohol, legal problems, and even death by suicide.

Inattention and impulsivity increase the risk of accidental injury and death. Other risky behaviors can lead to unplanned pregnancies.

Problems with executive functioning can lead to problems at home with significant others and in parenting. Many adults with ADHD show problems at work and in maintaining a consistent job.

Impulsive eating can lead to obesity, and all the long term health consequences associated with that. These include diabetes, heart disease, orthopedic problems, and more.

A public health problem

Dr. Barkley asserts that we should approach ADHD as a public health problem.

During his talk in St. Louis, one of Dr. Barkley’s slides proposed that “ADHD is a serious public health problem; it accounts for greater reductions is ELE [expected life expectancy] than any single risk factor of concern to public health and medical professionals, such as smoking, excess alcohol use, obesity, or risky driving among other widely accepted health risks.”

The good news

The good news is that many of these risks can be minimized with proper management.

If we support our students to help them succeed in school, they are more likely to continue in their education. When people attain a higher education level, they are able to get more fulfilling jobs and earn better incomes.

Proper management of ADHD and executive function problems can help prevent and treat depression and anxiety. With less depression and anxiety, parents can be better parents, workers better workers, and partners better partners. Self medication with drugs and alcohol will be less, resulting in fewer problems that are linked to those issues: less crime, healthier bodies, less risky behaviors and fewer accidents.

Encouraging healthy habits, such as regular exercise and proper nutrition, helps everyone live a longer, healthier life. This is no different for those with ADHD, so it is important to help them overcome poor dietary habits and inadequate exercise to improve their overall lifespan.

What can be done?

We can use behavioral interventions, training for patients and parents of children with ADHD, educational support, and medication to optimize management of ADHD.

When properly diagnosed and treated, individuals with ADHD can be very successful in life. That’s why ADHDKC was started… to help those with ADHD learn to thrive!

Top 10 Posts of 2018

What have others enjoyed reading on ADHDKCTeen that you may have missed?

I know it seems like I’m jumping on the bandwagon, but posting the top 10 blog posts at the end of the year serves several purposes. First, it might help someone find a post about a subject that’s important to them but they hadn’t seen yet. Second, it is a way for me to look at what people are reading, which can help me plan future group meeting topics as well as new posts. Third, it’s self-preservation. It’s a busy time of the year and I only have so much time like everyone else. This is an easy to write post!

10: Screen Time Limits

Setting Screen Time Limits is important to everyone. We all waste time on our screens, but we can’t simply get rid of them. They are a fantastic resource for information and a way to communicate with people we can’t talk to directly. Unfortunately, it’s all too easy to fall into the trap of checking one more app or playing one more game when we should be doing other things. People with ADHD are at risk due to their executive management issues with time management, impulsivity, and more. Learn some practical strategies on regulating your screen time so you have more time for other things!

9: What does brain imaging tell us about ADHD?

We’re able to look at the brain in many novel ways that are helping us to better understand its function and development. Studies have shown that kids with ADHD have smaller brains than kids without ADHD. Learn what brain imaging can tell us about ADHD and what the limitations are in What does brain imaging tell us about ADHD? 

8: Genetics of ADHD

If you know people who doubt that ADHD is a real condition, you can share new research that has located 12 specific areas in our genes that link directly to the symptoms of ADHD. Learn more in Genetics of ADHD.

7: Stimulants decrease brain function? Say what?

Yes, I was going for a click bait title with this one, but only in response to the headlines that made mainstream news about a study showing Adderall decreased brain function. The study was done in neurotypical (“normal”) people. There’s a big difference in what these drugs do in a brain that has imbalances of neurotransmitters (such as in those with ADHD) and in a brain that does not, so don’t freak out. Read Stimulants decrease brain function? Say What? to learn more!

6: 10 Secrets of Productivity

Who doesn’t want Secrets of Productivity?

5: Celebrate ADHD… Yes, Really!

One of the disappointing aspects of ADHD is that children are made to feel that they are bad and inferior. Most societies want children to do as they’re told in the way they’ve been shown. School in particular is difficult for kids with brains that work differently. The truth is that we should cultivate the characteristics that individuals have. If given the opportunity to learn in ways they learn best and to express their creativity and problem solving, people who think differently can excel. Many adults with ADHD finally find their purpose later in life when they can use the way their brains work to their advantage. Learn more in Celebrate ADHD.

4: 5 Self-Confidence Boosters Part 1: Stop Negativity

I’m surprised this is the most popular in the series of Self Confidence Boosters because it’s rather negative and the others are positive. I suppose it’s because if we recognize that we have a problem with negativity, we want to fix it.

3: How To Get A Growth Mindset

This is my personal favorite because I love this topic. A growth mindset is associated with success more than intelligence. Let that soak in… our perspective on life can help us be more successful. Learn How to Get A Growth Mindset.

2: Watch Out for Rejection Sensitivity

This is a topic that is a relatively new idea to me, but in hindsight I feel like I’ve always known of it. Kids with ADHD are particularly sensitive to criticism. They tend to have low self esteem and are often easily upset by things that wouldn’t bother others. Learn more about Rejection Sensitivity and what you can do to protect yourself against it.

1: What is ADHD? Why do some develop it?

The most read post is What is ADHD? Why do some develop it? It helps to introduce the basics of what causes ADHD and, sometimes more importantly, what does not cause it. If you know people who blame poor parenting or bad teachers, share this with them.

What’s your favorite?

What has been your favorite post on ADHDKCTeen?

What topics would you like covered in 2019?

Let me know in the comments below!

JOMO: Joy of Missing Out

As we hear holiday songs of joy and cheer, it’s a great time to talk about the Joy of Missing Out: JOMO. This winter break don’t waste your time looking at all the great photos of what your friends are doing. Fear of missing out, FOMO, leads to depression and feelings of insecurity. Find your own fun. Learn to appreciate the joy of missing out.

FOMO is everywhere

We’re able to see what our friends are up to at all hours of the day and night. People tend to post pics of what they do when they’re having fun. It’s great to see them enjoying whatever that is, but a part of us tends to be jealous.

When we see peers over and over again having a blast and getting lots of likes, it appears that they’re always having fun and they’re very popular. We forget that they have moments when they’re sitting alone bored and scrolling through social media wishing they were the one in the photo. They also have times that they feel all alone.

The grass is always greener on the other side. Believe me. Everyone has down moments. We just don’t post to say we’re doing nothing. Unless we want attention – and there’s a problem there too!

FOMO is a big problem

FOMO leads to more time online checking and rechecking to be sure you’re not missing the latest and greatest.

Excessive social media use can lead to less sleep – which in turn increases anxiety, depression, risk of accidental injury or death, and more.

The drive to know what’s going on at all times can lead to checking in at inappropriate times:

  • In class. How many have had phones taken away?
  • While driving. This puts not only your life in danger, but also the lives of others. Not to mention that it’s illegal in many states – including when you’re at a stop light.
  • While in the presence of others. It’s rude to check your phone when others are trying to talk to you! You can make your friend feel insignificant if it’s more important to play on your phone when you’re spending time with them.
  • When you should be sleeping. Being on a screen suppresses your melatonin so you don’t feel tired. If you have to get up in 8 hours, you should be sleeping.
  • When you should be studying or working. How often do you stay up late to finish homework? Think about how much time you wasted while doing your homework and checking in. And how many hours you spend procrastinating doing what you should be doing.
  • When you could be exercising. Obesity is a real risk of too much sitting around looking at your phone. Get out there and move!
Do you feel compelled to keep scrolling until you have seen posts from absolutely everyone? #FOMO #adhdkcteen #JOMO

Today’s teen culture is built around how people appear online. The number of followers and likes seem to indicate how good or popular you are.

But it doesn’t have to be like that. Generations of people were happy and satisfied, popular and self fulfilled without shouting to the world what they were doing.

Studies show that social media use is linked to anxiety and depression. It might actually be hazardous to your mental health.

Friends often have insomnia so reach out online. Don’t feel like you need to see their post immediately. It will be there tomorrow – you can see it when you have scheduled social media time.

What can you do to learn JOMO?

Embrace #JOMO: the joy of missing out. Live in the moment and appreciate life. #ADHDKCTeen

You might think it’s too hard to stay off line. How will you possibly keep up with the gossip and know what’s going on?

That’s the point… you don’t need to! Your real friends and family will talk to you about what’s important to them. You can share with them everything that’s important to you by talking with them and being with them.

FOMO is strong. Fear is a big driver of what we do and how we feel.

Find a passion

If you love a sport, art, music, or other activity, schedule regular time to do that activity.

Being with others who share the same passion will encourage you do do it even more and build strong connections with people.

Enjoy the moment

There’s a lot of research that show mindfulness helps to lower our anxiety and fight depression.

It’s not easy to learn, but there are many ways to be mindful. Start with an app or read a book. Attend a group session or class on mindfulness.

Manage time online

Keep track of how much time you spend online. Break that time into essential school and work related things and non-essential time.

Think about how much time you really should be spending online. Where can you cut back to give yourself more time to be with friends and family or to practice self-care tasks? Wouldn’t it be great to have more time for sleep?

For more on managing screen time, see Screen Time Limits. There are even some examples for apps that can help you track your time.

Unfollow

If you recognize that certain people trigger FOMO, unfollow them.

By unfollowing certain people you can still check on your friends and family who live out of town and stay in touch with them. But the people you don’t really care about won’t bother you. And you can look forward to catching up with friends who actually tell you what’s going on in their lives.

You won’t see all the people you don’t need to see, so you’ll not feel like you’re left out, but you can spend less time scrolling and more time doing other stuff.

Make connections IRL

Stop building your self image based on your online image.

If you feel compelled to check on your posts to see how many have liked it, you have a problem.

Do you feel compelled to check your posts to see how many likes you get? Does this help define your self image? #socialmediaproblems #JOMO #FOMO #adhdkcteen

Be yourself. Don’t worry about how many likes you get. Think about what matters to you can get involved in that.

Enjoy friends when you spend time with them in real life. It’s okay to like their posts, but it’s even better to share time doing fun things together.

Let friends know you really care by asking them to do things. They’ll appreciate the effort because they’re probably suffering from FOMO too! Of course they could have conflicts, so don’t be offended if they can’t always be available.

Take a break

I’ve seen several people over the years share a “see you later” post on their social sites. They let friends know they’re going off line for a day, a weekend, or more.

While I don’t really think you need to publicize it, I do think taking a break and not checking any social sites for a specified time can help you find what you’re missing by being online all the time. It can take time away from our screens to appreciate all the other stuff life has to offer. This extra time forces us to think about what we can do with our time. Boredom can lead to finding ourselves and our passions.

Publicizing going off line has pros and cons. It can seem to be a way to draw attention to yourself, but it also can let people know that you’re not hurt or in trouble. Some friends might be offended if you don’t reply quickly to a post. This will let you know you’re not mad at them or ignoring them. If this is the only way you feel like you don’t need to check in, then let people know you’re checking out. That also might stimulate them to do the same!

Make yourself, not companies, happy

Social sites, such as Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, and Twitter are businesses. They’re in it to make money.

The more you check your social sites, the happier those businesses are. They’re doing their job if they get you to spend time on their products. They make more money if you see their ads. The more time spent on their app, the better investment they are to their sponsors, which brings in more money to them. They use psychology to get users to use their platform more. They don’t care if it makes you less mentally and physically healthy.

Stop playing into their game. Resist the urge to hop online.

Make yourself happy by finding a passion off the screen and doing it. Don’t make your life about the right photo op. If you live life to its fullest, you’ll have the memories… which is infinitely better than the likes from people you don’t really care about!

Genetics of ADHD

A new study shows 12 distinct areas in our DNA that link to ADHD.

I have recently written What is ADHD? Why do some develop it? and What does brain imaging tell us about ADHD? Both of these help to show that ADHD is NOT caused by bad parents, bad kids, or many of the other things that are blamed. It is a disorder of brain development that has a genetic basis. Today we’ll go into some of the genetics of ADHD. My hope is that by learning how and why ADHD develops, we can stop blaming people for acting the way they do and treat the symptoms to help individuals thrive.

A bit about studying genetics

Twins are often used to study the inheritance of medical conditions because they have similar genetics and environment. Twin studies have shown that ADHD has a genetic link 70-80% of the time, but we haven’t identified a specific gene previously. 

It has been thought that a range of small and hard to identify differences in the sequence of nucleotides, which are components of DNA, combine to increase the likelihood of ADHD. These single nucleotide polymorphisms are referred to as SNPs. Environmental factors play a greater or lesser role (or sometimes none at all) depending on exactly which genetic variations are present.

What are SNPs?

SNPs are commonly pronounced like the word “snips”.

They are the most common type of genetic variation among people. Each SNP represents a difference in a single nucleotide in our DNA strands. 

SNPs occur normally throughout a person’s DNA. They occur once in every 300 nucleotides on average.  There are about 10 million SNPs in the human genome. They can act as biological markers, helping scientists locate genes that are associated with disease. When SNPs occur within a gene or in a regulatory region near a gene, they may play a more direct role in disease by affecting the gene’s function.

Does this cause a problem?

Most SNPs have no effect on health or development.

Some of these genetic differences have been shown to be very important in the study of human health. SNPs that may help predict an individual’s response to certain drugs, susceptibility to environmental factors, and risk of developing particular diseases. SNPs can also be used to track the inheritance of disease genes within families. 

For an interactive way to look at SNPs, see Learn Genetics

What does the study show?

A new large study has shown 12 specific differences that link to ADHD. Size is important. If a study is of only 100 people, the results could be very skewed. This study included 20,183 people diagnosed with ADHD and 35,191 controls without ADHD. This large size increases the reliability of the study.

Twelve SNPs were identified that are linked to ADHD, but we must still learn what this means in terms of development of ADHD. Much like some people have a genetic predisposition to cancer but never develop cancer and others without a genetic risk still develop cancer, some people can have the SNPs without ADHD and some people without these SNPs can develop ADHD.

How can this help us?

ADHD is real

One important thing that genetic studies can do is to help people understand that ADHD is a real condition. It is not made up. Yes, it can be over diagnosed in some people and missed in others, but it is real either way. 

Learning about symptoms

Comparing this study with similar ones of related conditions can lead to new understandings of relationships of the conditions.

For example, one SNP pattern found overlaps with those discovered in a similar study of insomnia. Many people with ADHD suffer from sleep problems, so this might lead to specific treatments of sleep disturbances.

Limitations of the study

This is not a study that will help us diagnose ADHD. 

Specific ways that the genes lead to symptoms are not yet known. 

How other factors, such as prematurity, nutrition, and life experiences, interact with the genetic predisposition must be further investigated.

How is ADHD diagnosed?

Diagnosis of ADHD requires that symptoms exist in at least two settings, such as home and school. 

Standardized assessment scales should be used to assess risk of ADHD. These scales are commonly done by parents, teachers, and others close to a child. Adult rating scales are available for adults with suspected ADHD.

Evaluation to assess for other disorders and conditions that can mimic ADHD, such as learning disorders, sleep deprivation and anxiety, should be completed.

Blood tests and brain imaging are not required to diagnose or treat ADHD.

Looking ahead…

Future research may help us learn to manage the symptoms of ADHD in new ways.

My hope is that learning the causes of ADHD will not only help us manage the non-desired symptoms, but also cultivate the beneficial attributes and decrease the stigma and misunderstanding so we can help people with ADHD learn to thrive.

My hope is that learning the causes of ADHD will not only help us manage the non-desired symptoms, but also cultivate the beneficial attributes and decrease the stigma and misunderstanding so we can help people with ADHD learn to thrive.

What does brain imaging tell us about ADHD?

We now are able to look at the brain in ways that show its development and function. Studies have shown that kids with ADHD have smaller brains than kids without ADHD. This does not correlate with the head size your doctor measures in infancy, and head size does not help physicians predict ADHD.

Last week’s post What is ADHD? Why do some develop it? introduced the concept that ADHD is a brain disorder, not a problem with parenting or other common misbeliefs. Today we’ll go more in depth into how brain imaging has shown differences when people have ADHD. Next week we’ll go further into the genetics of it. 

Brain imaging

There are many ways we can image the brain for different reasons. Single-photon emission computer tomography (SPECT), positron emission tomography (PET), and functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) are all being studied to show different aspects of brain function and development.

Some of the studies look at blood flow to various parts of the brain during different tasks to show which parts of the brain are triggered and how that differences among different groups of people. Others look at subtle changes in brain growth.

With vs without ADHD

Brain imaging comparing large groups of kids with ADHD to those without ADHD show significant differences. These are very subtle differences and are still considered investigational. The changes are too subtle to diagnose ADHD in any one person.

There are several areas of the brain that have been shown to be smaller in children with ADHD. At this time the specific areas of delayed growth do not correlate with specific treatments.

ADHD is a brain condition

It is not recommended to do imaging studies to diagnose ADHD, but the fact that large groups of people show differences highlights the fact that ADHD is a real disorder of the brain.

Hopefully as this information is recognized, the stigma of ADHD and other brain disorders will be lost. People will be able to understand that it is a real brain dysfunction.

The case for a clinical diagnosis

Studying brain differences helps us to understand ADHD, but imaging is less useful to any individual for diagnosis. We have a good track record for diagnosing ADHD with standardized questions and a clinical history.

Images capture a moment in time, but they don’t necessarily tell the whole story.

What happens to a brain in different circumstances? It can be very insightful to ask what happens when a child is doing a favorite activity versus when he’s stressed.

Clinical history can cover different situations over time. This cannot be captured in any brain image.

To be useful for diagnosis and management of a medical condition, a test must first:

  • Be reliable: The changes seen are very subtle, and results must be shown to be accessible and identifiable in individuals to be useful for diagnosis. If only a few trained people can identify the subtle differences, it will not be available or helpful to most people. 
  • Show safety: Everything we do in healthcare must be shown to be safe and effective before it’s used. Risks and benefits must be weighed. Risks of imaging must be considered.
  • Show benefit: If a clinical diagnosis can be made, what benefit would be attained by doing an expensive test? If it does not add to the treatment, it should not be done. Since the large majority of people with ADHD can be diagnosed clinically, we should not need to do studies that add risk and cost.

Back to the prefrontal cortex…

In What is ADHD? Why do some develop it? I mentioned that the prefrontal cortex and said that it was especially interesting. Let’s talk more about why.

Brain lobes serve different functions.  Learn more at www.adhdkcteen.com. #adhd #adhdkcteen #development

Studies have shown that the prefrontal cortex develops more slowly in children and teens with ADHD. This means that the areas of the brain that control executive functioning are thinner in children with ADHD versus those without ADHD.

Functional imaging shows that the frontal lobes in children function less during activities involving concentration, memory, decision-making and problem solving.

It’s even more than that. Those with worse outcomes as they mature have fixed thinning (it doesn’t ever normalize) but those who ultimately develop a normal thickness have a better outcome. 

A thinner brain cortex is not a damaged brain. It is an alteration in development.

Other parts of the brain are affected too

Our cerebellum helps us with movement and memory. Children with ADHD show slower growth of cerebellar white matter in early childhood, but faster growth in late childhood. 

The amygdala and hippocampus are also smaller in the brains of people with ADHD. These areas are responsible for emotional processing and impulsivity, problem areas for many with ADHD.

What does all of this mean?

You guessed it: it’s still being studied.

Studies continue to help us learn more about brain structure and function. We also continue to learn about the chemical interactions that happen while our brain is working. 

What all this information means and how we can use it to best manage the troubling symptoms of ADHD is yet to be fully uncovered.

It may be possible one day to predict which children will develop ADHD and change something in the early years to alter that development. But we’re not there yet…

Does a slower development of certain brain areas have an advantage? Maybe the slower development of the cerebellum is why kids with ADHD learn better when they fidget.

These are the things we still need to learn.

We don’t really know the full extent of it yet.

For more:

ADHD Neuroimaging: What’s New?

Coming up next:

What do we know about the genetics of ADHD?

What is ADHD? Why do some develop it?

ADHD was first recognized as a behavior problem, but now we know it’s a developmental disorder. Don’t worry though. Having a developmental disorder doesn’t make you stupid or damaged. It simply means that brain development is a bit different. We’ll tackle details here.

Typical Brain Development

Our brains have billions of nerve cells called neurons that start developing a few weeks after conception. Within 6 months after conception, there are even more neurons than are found in an adult brain. As we develop, neurons grow and make connections with one another. The number of brain cells decrease as unneeded neurons are pruned away.

Neurotransmitters help to communicate from one neuron to another. For more see adhdkcteen.com. #adhd #whatisadhd #braindevelopment

A network of fibers develops to connect the brain cells in order to interact with other parts of the brain and to perform complex functions. Neurotransmitters help send messages between nerve cells.

We’ll tackle neurotransmitters more in future posts. They’re important!

How long does it take for the brain to fully develop?

We might look pretty mature by our teen years, but our brain is still growing!

The first 3-4 years of life is a time of rapid brain development, but it continues for more than 20 years.

Brains don't stop growing when we do. Learn more at www.adhdkcteen.com. #adhd #adhdkcteen

Prefrontal cortex

The prefrontal cortex is especially interesting. It helps us plan, organize, make decisions, and maintain self control. These are considered executive functions and are often problematic for those with ADHD.

The prefrontal cortex typically doesn’t finish full development until mid-20s. That means our brains are still developing key areas into our early adult years!

For a fun interactive way to see all areas of the brain, visit Brainfacts.org.
For a fun interactive way to see all areas of the brain, visit Brainfacts.org.

How does ADHD develop?

There are many things that affect our brain development that can lead to symptoms of ADHD.

At this point we don’t diagnose the cause of the ADHD since treatment is geared toward addressing the symptoms, but it can be helpful to know that there are many reasons a person develops ADHD.

Genetics

Like many things, brain development is affected by our genetics. Genetics affects how we look, how tall we should grow, our intelligence, and risks of certain health problems – such as cancer or heart disease. Of course our genetics are only the blueprint. Our environment, nutrition, experiences, and much more also affect how we grow and develop.

If one parent has ADHD, a child is more likely to have ADHD. If both parents have ADHD, their child is much more likely to have ADHD.

Genes can affect whether or not we develop ADHD. Learn more at www.adhdkcteen.com. #adhd #adhdkcteen

Prenatal development

While a baby is still in its mother’s womb, it is considered a fetus. This is considered the prenatal time of development.

Many things can affect development during the prenatal time. Drugs and alcohol, illness, and other stressors affecting the mother can affect the baby.

Prematurity (being born before the due date) and being small at birth can increase the risk of developmental disorders, including ADHD.

Our brains develop for months before we're born. Learn more at www.adhdkcteen.com. #adhd #adhdkcteen #development

Illness, injury, toxins and more… oh, my!

The first few years of a child’s life can be complicated by illness, injury, nutritional deficiencies, and toxins. These can all affect brain development.

Even after the critical developmental years, injuries and toxins to the brain can change our brain function. Think of a teen or adult who has had a concussion. Their brain function can be severely altered. They might suffer from mental fogginess, fatigue, irritability, and more after the injury. In fact, sometimes people will be treated with medications commonly used for ADHD temporarily after a concussion. 

What it’s NOT:

ADHD is not due to bad parenting, poor discipline, or bad schools. 

ADHD is not from bad parenting. It is based in our brains and is neurological. For more see adhdkcteen.com. #adhd #whatisadhd #braindevelopment

Yes, those things can worsen a child’s behavior, but they don’t cause ADHD.

What about sugar?

ADHD also isn’t from too much sugar.

Studies have even shown that even when a parent perceives worsening of behavior after sugar, independent observers see no real change. For more on that and how diets affect ADHD, see Special Diets for ADHD.

There are many myths about why ADHD exists - and some even deny its existance. Learn the real cause of ADHD. #adhdkcteen #adhd

Coming up…

Tune in next week for information on brain imaging in ADHD that shows specific differences in the ADHD brain and then for information on what we know about the genetics of ADHD!

2018 International Conference on ADHD recap

I was excited to attend the 2018 International Conference on ADHD with a group of ADHDKC board members. I’ll try to recap some of the best information learned.

We were all able to make connections with people from all over the world who research and treat symptoms associated with ADHD and with those who are in various learning stages about their own ADHD. It was not uncommon throughout the conference to hear that people found their tribe…

#ADHDcon2018 - Tribe talk

Too much information

There were many simultaneous talks during the 4 day conference. I went to many great talks but missed others. I tried to tweet #ADHDcon2018 during the conference, but couldn’t pay attention and tweet at the same time, so missed a lot of points to share.

International connections

I was very fortunate to meet Marylin, a woman from France who is passionate about learning and sharing information about ADHD. She shared with me that ADHD is not commonly recognized in France and she is working to change that. Learn more about her organization at TDAH.

Marilyn recorded several of the sessions and uploaded them to her Facebook page. I’ll share these along with other information below.

Marylin and speakers, Dr. Michelle Frank and Sari Solden.

Translation from Facebook:

If you thought ADHD was reserved for children….
If you thought that: in the same way as intellectual early, (fortunately less and less used) ADHD disappears over time….
If you thought ADHD was a bad education…. too permissive….
If you thought ADHD was a simple motor hyperactivity….
So…. it’s time to learn, to inform you to understand this neurobiological disorder that affects millions of people around the world: Children, adolescents, adults, men and women together.
The symptoms differ, however, the disorder remains the same.
ADHD is an invisible, ill-known, misunderstood handicap, particularly in France, where diagnosis and care have accumulated considerably harmful delays. 10, 15 (rather 20 years to be honest) compared to other countries of the world.
ADHD is not happy with associated disorders (called morbid), dyslexia, dyscaculie, ect… anxiety disorder, disorder disorder with provocation.
Non-diagnosed ADHD may also lead to adolescent-Risk Pipelines: Sexuality, driving, risk-taking, addictions,
(drugs, tobacco, alcohol) unwanted pregnancies, and
D after the latest research: a considerably reduced longevity. Are you ready to open your eyes and ears and change your states d spirits…

Dr. Russel Barkley

Dr. Russel Barkley is a world renowned expert on ADHD and was one of the keynote speakers. He spoke at the Midwest ADHD Conference sponsored by ADHDKC.org last spring, so you might recognize him and his message: untreated (and undertreated) ADHD has risks!

If you want to skip to Dr. Barkley, go to 8 min. To do this, hover over the bottom and click on the Facebook icon. It will bring you to the Facebook video, and you can scroll forward.

Hover over the bottom and click on the Facebook icon to be able to fast forward.

And yes, we were smitten with him being there… he’s that big of a deal!

Unique Challenges Facing Mothers & Daughters with ADHD

Our own Jeremy Didier and her daughter were among a panel of mother/daughter pairs who talked about living with ADHD.

Our own Jeremy Didier and her daughter were among a panel of mother/daughter pairs who talked about living with ADHD.

Self care

I was not in this session, but found a snippet on Twitter:

Importance of self care. Thoughts on shame. Eric Tivers from Susie Sahim. #selfcare

Importance of self care. Thoughts on shame#adhdcon2018 #adhd@EricTivers talk on adulting pic.twitter.com/SeyAFIVXl1— Susie Sahim ➡️ #ADHDCon2018 (@bogusred) November 11, 2018

Jessica McCabe from How to ADHD

I was excited to be able to see How to ADHD's Jessica McCabe as the final keynote speaker.
I was excited to be able to see How to ADHD‘s Jessica McCabe as the final keynote speaker.

For those who don’t know her, she has made a name for herself making videos about ADHD. I’ve been a fan of her videos for several years, so seeing her live was awesome! 

One of her first slides summarized the other three keynote speakers talks. 

LeDerick Horne spoke of growing up with dyslexia and ADHD in a time and place that was not supportive, yet developing into a renowned poet and public speaker. Eduardo Briceno talked about having a growth mindset. Dr. Russell Barkley shared his 40+ years of research data showing that untreated ADHD has too many risks to ignore – they all culminate in a significantly shortened lifespan. 

Marylin also caught this in full on Facebook live. Start at about 14 min in to skip all the conference acknowledgements if you’re not interested in those.

Coach Diane

Coach Diane from Odyssey Learning spoke about various ways to help kids and teens learn executive functioning.

I was really excited to see that Coach Diane, from Odyssey Learning, was speaking at this conference. Since I won’t be able to make her local talk next month, it was fantastic to hear how she uses creative ways to help kids and teens learn executive function skills.

If you can make it to her local talk, please RSVP on SignUpGenius. Her ADHDKC talk will be geared for tweens and teens, but her slides are more for professionals working with people with ADHD.

All of her slides are available from her website, Odyssey Learning.

What did she talk about?

She talked about how we’re wired to learn when we’re interested. Everyone, but especially those with ADHD, struggle to pay attention when they aren’t interested.

Fear, stress, boredom and anxiety of course make learning even harder, and these are common traits found in people with ADHD. When kids with ADHD are bored, they can suffer from agitation. This gets mislabeled as a behavior problem, but it’s a neurological problem!

Making new concepts and information interesting is one successful way to help people learn. She uses cooking, games, magic, and more to help kids learn.

Backwards planning is one strategy that helps kids complete tasks. Knowing where you want to end up, then coming up with all the steps that are required to get there, is backwards planning. She will use cooking to model backwards planning, then help kids learn to generalize the skill to real life examples.

So much more…

There was so much that I have not been able to share. There are API handouts as well as general session handouts available online.

If you are able to make it to the next conference, it should be great!

Learn to Learn

Studies consistently show that people who know how to learn and have grit are more successful than people who are smart but don’t have resilience. That means we all need to learn how to learn and how to be resilient!

Let’s start with the basics and then review a few learning techniques that can help.

People who know how to learn and have grit are more successful than people who are smart but don't have resilience. Learn how to learn to succeed!

Basics

Organize

If you take a few minutes each day to fill out a planner and review what needs to be done, you will save yourself a ton of time overall. And have fewer periods of last minute anxieties!

There are many organization systems out there. Online planners and paper planners each have their pros and cons. The most important thing is that you pick one that works for you. Just search for reviews of planners, and you’ll find many suggestions.

There’s also the Google calendar or iCal – both offer the ability to keep track of things wherever you are! There are also many online apps for organization, most of which offer free versions as well as premium plans.

The most important thing about calendars and planners: put everything in them and use them regularly.

Of course you should put all your assignments in your planner. Also add in your extracurriculars. If you’re making plans with friends, add that in too. Don’t forget to add in time for exercise and sleep. Everything that’s important should be in there!

If you take a few minutes each day to fill out a planner and review what needs to be done, you will save yourself a ton of time overall. And have fewer periods of last minute anxieties! #organize

Don’t put it off!

It’s tempting to put off studying until the last minute, but don’t fall for the temptation.

Some people even say they do best at the last minute because of the adrenaline rush they get from the anxiety of the last minute. But chances are if you really look at it, you do a much better job and feel much better if you pace yourself and do a little each day.

If you finish parts of tasks on time at a healthy pace, you’ll have less time spent worrying about it. This leaves more time to enjoy life. You’ll probably sleep better and be healthier!

Finish parts of tasks on time at a healthy pace. You'll have less time spent worrying about it. This leaves more time to enjoy life. #organization

Sleep

Your brain needs sleep to process and store information. All nighters will keep you from performing at your best. 

Study in the evening, get a good night’s sleep, then review your notes a bit in the morning. This is a recipe for success!

Dogs get it. Your brain needs sleep to process and store information. Get enough sleep to be the best you can be. #sleepmatters

Exercise

There are studies showing that people who exercise right before a test do better than those who cram a little longer. 

Exercise is not only great for your body… it’s also good for your mind!

Exercise is not only great for your body... it's also good for your mind! #exercise

Think positive!

If you get stuck in negativity, you’ll waste a ton of time and energy just being mad or scared. 

It’s easy to fall into the trap. If you start to feel overwhelmed and frustrated that you won’t have enough time to finish a report, you will waste even more time not doing the report. It’s too easy to waste time worrying. 

How do you change your mindset from, “I’ll never finish this,” to “I might have waited a long time to start this, but I’ve always been able to push through and finish it in the past”? See the “Related Posts” section at the bottom of this blog.

Learn to be positive by changing your mindset. It makes a world of difference! #growthmindset #powerofpositivity

Learning techniques

Write it down

Take notes as you study. The process of writing helps people remember. 

Don’t simply re-write exactly what you hear in lecture or read in your textbook. Summarize the thought in your own words. This helps much more!

Writing has been shown to be more effective than typing to help with learning, so unless you can’t write, put the keyboard aside and use a simple pen and paper! (Maybe a pen on the appropriate screen would be okay… I don’t know if that’s been studied.)

Writing has been shown to be more effective than typing to help with learning. Summarize ideas during lectures or while reading and write them down! #studytip

Mnemonics

Memorizing dates, words in a foreign language, and more can be difficult, but associating them with something else can make a big difference. 

I still remember many of the mnemonics I used years ago…. 

Who else learned “Every Good Boy Does Fine” to learn to read music?

You can use images, songs, word associations and rhymes to help remember difficult information. This great video explains how to use several of the techniques.

Sing a tune – one type of mnemonic

Songs and rhymes help us learn. You know how you can remember all the words to your favorite song, right? Words in a song are grouped together more easily in our mind and are easier to remember than non-associated words. 

Songs and rhymes help us learn. Words in a song are grouped together more easily in our mind and are easier to remember than non-associated words. #singtolearn

Pick a familiar tune and put the information you need to learn in it. If you’re not that creative or short on time, search your topic with “music” or “song” and check out the results.

Pick a familiar tune and put the information you need to learn in it. If you're not that creative or short on time, search your topic with "music" or "song" and check out the results. #learntolearn More tips on www.adhdkcteen.com.

Singing is one type of mnemonic memorization. For more types and descriptors, see Try these 9 Types of Mnemonics to Improve Your Memory.

What’s your learning style?

You might have heard that everyone has their own learning style. It’s true. Some people learn from reading things best. Other people are more auditory learners – they learn from listening.

There are 7 basic learning styles. We’ll cover more of those in a future post.

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